The long and winding road that leads to your door
Will never disappear
I’ve seen that road before it always leads me here
Leads me to your door. Paul McCartney, John Lennon
How’s she doing? Will she ever get back to her old self?
Everyone seams to ask me those question’s and more. I tell them, she is doing fine and no, she will NEVER be who she use to be. I use to tell them what they wanted to hear but not anymore. Only the closest to me, will I give the most answers too. And that is because they ask how I am doing. They know My life is also never going to be what it use to be. I have become “short” and “ A Matter of Fact” with most everybody anymore.
The ironic part is that it doesn’t bother me. What I say is the truth. Nothing will be “Sugar Coated” and that is what they will get.
I can see the changes daily. And yes, as long as you treat that person with love and care, they grow. Amazing feats can be accomplished. She helps me with everything. She can also see when I am down and want to know what is bothering me. It fills my heart when she does that.
I watch her when I am work on my computer. I have camera’s set around the house to more or less make sure she doesn’t get hurt or also if someone uninvited shows up at the door. I call her around 2 to 3 times a day to make sure she is okey and how she is doing. She is always in a good mood. All I can say is that maybe she had a great childhood to be so good nature’d. Never any bitterness in her.
It has been approximately two and a half years now since my wife’s Aneurysm. There is still a long road to travel, but in my opinion, it is not that long anymore.
To the unconditional love of the Woman I adore.
- regular, unvarying, habitual………… Do it a thousand times. The same way every time.
Keep on keeping on. Laugh with your loved one and make them feel like they are loved, safe and important. Every day is a new day. Smile when you wake up and thank the one above for everything. Make my mind strong, my body strong, and my soul strong, in your name Jesus. Amen.
Hasta la próxima.